The rabbit is one of the most loved vibrator designs for a simple reason: it does two things at once. One arm is inserted for internal sensation while a smaller arm rests against the clitoris. If you've just got your first one, or you're wondering whether it's for you, here's how to get the most from it.
How a rabbit vibrator works
A rabbit has a main shaft, usually gently curved, and a shorter outer arm (the "ears"). When the shaft is inside, the outer arm sits against the clitoris, so you get internal and external stimulation together, which is often called "blended" stimulation. Many people find that combination more intense than either on its own.
Our Sienna Rabbit Vibrator is made from soft silicone and offers dual vibration, so you can explore how the two arms feel together.
Before you start
- Charge or power it up so it doesn't fade mid-moment.
- Wash it with warm water and mild soap, or a toy cleaner. Our cleaning guide has the details.
- Have lube ready. A water-based lube such as plusOne Aloe Glide is safe with silicone toys. Avoid silicone-based lube with silicone toys; see our lube guide for why.
- Give yourself time. Arousal makes everything more comfortable, so warm up first with touch or the outer arm alone.
Step by step
- Start outside. Turn the toy on at its lowest setting and explore with the outer arm or the tip of the shaft against your vulva and clitoris.
- Add lube to the shaft and to yourself.
- Insert slowly. Go only as far as feels good. Most rabbits are designed so the outer arm meets the clitoris without full insertion.
- Find the angle. Tilt the handle up or down until the outer arm rests where you want it. A small change in angle makes a big difference.
- Explore the settings. Try different intensities and patterns. Some people like strong internal vibration with a gentle outer arm, and others like the opposite.
- Move with it. Gentle rocking often works better than thrusting, because it keeps the outer arm in contact.
Positions to try
- Lying on your back with knees bent is the easiest place to start, with full control of the angle.
- A pillow under your hips changes the angle of the shaft and can help it reach the front wall, where the G-spot area is.
- Lying on your front with the toy between you and the mattress gives hands-free pressure on the outer arm.
- Sitting or kneeling lets you rock against the toy and control the depth.
Using a rabbit with a partner
A rabbit can be a lovely shared toy. Let your partner hold it while you guide the angle and speed, or hold it yourself while they kiss and touch you. Talk as you go; "slower", "higher" and "stay there" are all helpful. If talking about toys feels new, our guide to talking to your partner about desire can help.
If it doesn't feel right
Bodies differ, so the outer arm won't line up perfectly for everyone. If the arms don't meet where you'd like, try a different angle or position, or use the toy only externally. If you discover you love the clitoral side most, a suction vibrator or a wand or bullet might suit you better. Our Discovery Box includes a rabbit, a wand and a suction toy, so you can compare all three.
Care and storage
Clean your rabbit after every use, paying attention to the gap where the arms meet. Let it dry completely, then store it in a pouch away from other toys. Silicone toys can react with each other when they touch for long periods.
Quick answers
Can a rabbit vibrator be used just externally?
Yes. Many people use the outer arm or the tip of the shaft on its own, especially while warming up.
What lube should I use with a silicone rabbit?
A water-based lube is the safe choice. Silicone lube can damage the surface of silicone toys over time.
Why doesn't the outer arm reach my clitoris?
Every body is different. Try changing the angle, inserting a little less, or putting a pillow under your hips.
Is a rabbit good for beginners?
It can be. If you're new to internal toys, start slowly with plenty of lube, or begin with a smaller external toy first.
