Wand vibrators have a devoted following — and for good reason. Their broad, rumbly vibration feels different from smaller toys, and they're wonderfully versatile. If you've just got your first wand, here's how to make the most of it.
What makes a wand different
A wand has a rounded head on a handle. Instead of focusing vibration on a tiny point like a bullet, it spreads it across a wider area, which many people describe as deeper and more "full". That makes wands great for people who find small toys too subtle — and for massage, too.
Start low and slow
Good wands can be surprisingly powerful. Luna, for example, has 8 intensity levels and 20 patterns — so begin on the lowest setting and build up only when you want more.
- Start over clothing or underwear. A layer of fabric softens the sensation and is a comfortable way to begin.
- Warm up nearby — inner thighs, the pubic mound, the outer labia — before moving to the clitoris.
- Use indirect contact. Many people prefer the head resting just beside the clitoris rather than directly on it.
Techniques to try
- Circles: slow circles around the clitoris.
- Pressure play: alternate light contact with firmer pressure.
- Pulse with patterns: switch from steady vibration to a pattern as you build.
- Edge it: lift the wand away just before you get too close, then return — it can make the build-up more intense.
Positions that work well
- On your back with a pillow under your hips.
- Face down, lying on top of the wand — hands-free and great for pressure.
- Seated, with the wand between your thighs.
Using a wand with a partner
A wand is one of the easiest toys to share. Hold it against the clitoris during penetration, use it during foreplay, or pass control to your partner. The broad head also works through both bodies when you're close together. See our couples' guide for more ideas.
Lube and comfort
A little water-based lube like plusOne Aloe Glide reduces friction during longer sessions. If you ever feel numb after a long, intense session, take a break — sensitivity comes back.
Care and charging
Clean the head and body before and after use with warm water and a toy cleaner, keeping the charging port closed and dry. Luna is USB rechargeable (about 90 minutes to charge for around 85 minutes of use) and water-resistant for easier cleaning — not for bathing. Read our cleaning guide for more.
Curious about other styles first? Take the which-vibrator quiz, or try a wand alongside a rabbit and a suction toy in The Discovery Box.
Quick answers
Are wand vibrators too strong for beginners?
Not if you start on the lowest setting — try it over fabric first, and build up only when you want more.
Can you use a wand during sex?
Yes. A wand is easy to hold against the clitoris during penetration, and either partner can control it.
Is Luna waterproof?
Luna is life-water resistant for easier cleaning. Keep the charging port closed and don't submerge it.
